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A stag and doe party, stag and drag party, hen and stag party, buck and doe party, or a jack and jill party is a Canadian party and fundraiser for an engaged couple.

Canada

In Canada, an event popular mostly in Manitoba or Ontario under various names to raise money for a couple for their future wedding plans or honeymoon. In Southern Ontario it may be called a stag and doe, or buck and doe, and in Northwestern Ontario it is called a shag. In Manitoba, this is often called a social or wedding social with less fundraising pressure than seen in Ontario.{{cn|date=June 2015}}

The event is usually organized by the bridal party, but in some circumstances may also be held by the bride and groom before they are married, similar to a Jack & Jill. It acts as a fundraiser for the wedding. Guests purchase entrance tickets and are entertained by draws, food and drink, music and fun and games that they will pay for to participate in. It is not a combined stag night/bachelor party and bachelorette party, or engagement party, as the primary focus is to raise money for the engaged couple, so their new life together is not started in debt.^[1]

Often, people who may not be close enough to the engaged couple to warrant an invitation to the wedding or reception (especially in the case of a small wedding), will be "tapped" to attend the stag and do so as to be part of the overall wedding fundraising. Hosting a stag and doe party does not preclude the couple from participating in other wedding-related parties, such as a bridal shower, bachelor party, bachelorette party, and so on.

A popular stag and doe tradition is a toonie toss, which has guests toss toonies ({{currency|2|CAD}} coins) at a Texas mickey (3L) bottle of liquor. The toss runs for some time until the Toonie closest to the bottle without making contact wins the bottle.

In Manitoba, in addition to purchasing entrance tickets, guests bid on silent auction prizes, participate in a 50-50 draw, and purchase liquor.^[2] Typical food at a Manitoba wedding social includes KUB bread, cold cuts, cheese cubes, and Timbits.^[3]^[4] Often the bridal or wedding shower is held the afternoon before the social. Other times, it is used as a fundraiser for the wedding itself and will be held a few weeks before the day of the wedding.

Other Countries

An uncommon event borrowed from the tradition of Canada, and only held in small pockets of certain US States. ^[5] Guests typically have to purchase a ticket to cover the costs of the event. ^[6] Guests could be offered memorabilia such as an engraved cup with the couple's names and wedding date.

References

1. ^{{cite web|title=Stag Party Ideas|url=http://www.stagpartyuk.co.uk/bournemouth-stag-do/|accessdate=21 April 2016}}
2. ^{{cite web|title=What is a Manitoba Social?|url=http://www.socialsguide.com/whatisasocial.php|accessdate=3 August 2012}}
3. ^{{cite news|last=Schwegel|first=Courtney|title=Tacky, or just good old fashioned fun?|url=http://uniter.ca/view/712/|accessdate=26 October 2012|newspaper=The Uniter|date=25 March 2009}}
4. ^Cherniack, Lawrie, and Cy Fien. "Common Law Marriages in Manitoba." Man. LJ 6 (1974): 85.
5. ^{{citeweb|url=https://mic.com/articles/120807/why-jack-and-jill-parties-should-replace-bridal-showers#.rJaV8maUX|title=The Awesome Pre-Wedding Event to Replace Bridal Showers Once and for All| date=17 June 2015|accessdate=19 August 2018|publisher=Mic|first=Nicolas|last=DiDomizio}}
6. ^{{citeweb|url=http://www.goerie.com/lifestyle/20151227/bridal-party-etiquette|publisher=GoErie.com|title=Bridal party etiquette|date=27 December 2015}}