词条 | The seven-year itch |
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The phrase was first used to describe an inclination to become unfaithful after seven years of marriage in the play The Seven Year Itch by George Axelrod, and gained popularity following the 1955 film adaptation starring Marilyn Monroe and Tom Ewell. In his 1913 novel The Eighth Year, Philip Gibbs attributes the concept to the British judge Sir Francis Jeune. The phrase has since expanded to indicate cycles of dissatisfaction not only in interpersonal relationships but in any situation such as working a full-time job or buying a house, where a decrease in happiness and satisfaction is often seen over long periods of time. Divorce ratesThe seven-year itch can be analyzed quantitatively. Divorce rates show a trend in couples that, on average, divorce around seven years. Statistics show that there is a low risk of separation during the first months of marriage. After the "honeymoon" months, divorce rates start to increase. Most married couples experience a gradual decline in the quality of their marriage; in recent years around the fourth year of marriage. Around the seventh year, tensions rise to a point that couples either divorce or adapt to their partner.[3] In samples taken from the National Center for Health Statistics, there proves to be an average median duration of marriage across time. In 1922 the median duration of marriage that ended in divorce was 6.6.[4] In 1974 the median duration was 7.5. In 1990 the median duration was 7.2. While these can fluctuate from year to year, the averages stay relatively close to the seven year mark.[5] Media influencesThe modern usage of the phrase gained popularity following the 1955 movie of the same name starring Marilyn Monroe. In the film, a man sends his family off on vacation for the summer while he stays back to work. He begins to fantasize about women that he previously had feelings for, when his new neighbor (Marilyn Monroe) moves in and he decides to try and seduce her. Things go awry and he ends up not going through with it, but he believes that his wife will somehow know that he is trying to be unfaithful.[6] Whilst the term was originally used for unfavourable conditions of a long duration, the movie helped to popularize its usage to refer to the decrease of romantic feelings between married couples over time. The phrase has become so popular that some couples use it as an indicator of the lifespan of their marriage, a famous example being a Bavarian politician Gabriele Pauli, who has been divorced twice. She suggests after seven years marriage should end, with the couple required to resay their vows if they wish to continue for another seven years.[7] See also
References1. ^Aaron Dalton. "The Ties That Unbind", Psychology Today, 1 January 2000. Retrieved 12 June 2012. {{DEFAULTSORT:Seven-Year Itch}}2. ^Martin, G. "http://phrases.org.uk/meanings/seven-year-itch.html", The seven-year itch:, (n.d.). Retrieved 30 December 2013. 3. ^Kiernan, K. (1999). Cohabitation in Western Europe. Population Trends, 96: 25-32. 4. ^Ellis, R., & Kreider, R. (2011). Number, Timing, and Duration of Marriages and Divorces:2009. Current Population Reports. Retrieved from https://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/p70-125.pdf. 5. ^U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (1981).Duration of Marriage Before Divorce. National Vital Statistics System 21, 38. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_21/sr21_038.pdf 6. ^Crowther, B. (n.d.). The Seven-Year-Itch (1955). The New York Times, Retrieved from http://movies.nytimes.com/movie/43862/The-Seven-Year-Itch/overview 7. ^{{cite news|last1=Mieszkowski|first1=Katherine|title=Congratulations! Your Marriage has Expired|url=http://www.salon.com/2007/09/21/marriage_2/|accessdate=December 20, 2014|work=Salon|date=September 21, 2007}} 6 : Divorce|Marriage|Monogamy|English phrases|Psychology|English proverbs |
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