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A blind date is a social engagement between two people who have not previously met, usually arranged by a mutual acquaintance.[1] StructureA blind date is arranged for by a mutual acquaintance of both participants, whether that person be a friend of both persons or a family member of one. The two people who take part in the blind date have never met or seen each other, hence the phrase "blind date". Therefore, it is the responsibility of the person who arranges the date to ensure that they are a good match. Sometimes one person is more interested in the match than the other, which may make it more difficult on the person arranging the date to judge whether the date will be successful.[2] The date is usually two hours or less, as it is just a first date and is really meant to introduce the two people more than it is meant to create a marriage.[3] Furthermore, due to the unfamiliarity of the two people the date is shorter than most because they are in the beginning stages of a relationship. The date is also very adventurous in the way that neither party knows what to expect and whether or not they will hit it off. The location of the date is also affected by the spontaneity in that it is often a neutral and public place so that both parties feel comfortable. Online dating{{Main article|Online dating service}}Family and friends have been declining in their influence over the dating market for the past 60 years. In the past 15 years, the rise of the Internet has also displaced the neighborhood, the workplace, and the circle of friends as sources of dating partners.[4] As of May 2013, it was estimated that 11% of adult Americans had used online dating websites or mobile dating applications, and 59% of American Internet users agreed that online dating was a good way to meet people.[5] China's largest online dating site reported over 100 million users in September 2013.[6] For couples that have been together for more than a year, the choice of venue (online vs. real life) had little influence on relationship success.[4] {{Multiple issues|section=yes|{{refimprove section|date=December 2013}}{{cleanup rewrite|section=yes|date=January 2017}}{{tone|section|date=January 2017}}}} Online dating services ask questions in the form of a survey in order to get to know the user better as a person and to understand what they are looking for in a relationship.[7] Then the online service will find matching users based on various algorithms. The users are enabled to communicate with each other, often after they sign up for the service at a cost. According to a study done by Match.com, in an effort to determine how much impact their services are having on the way relationships develop today, "17% of couples married in the last 3 years, or 1 in 6, met each other on an online dating site" and "1 out of 5 single people have dated someone they met on an online dating site".[8] There are thousands of online dating websites; however, eHarmony has the most participants with 20 million profiles and Match.com has the second most profiles with 15 million.[9] In popular culture{{See also|blind date (disambiguation)}}Television
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By countryChinaParents find their children blind dates in parks. "Spouse-hunting fairs in big city parks by parents eager to see their children tie the knot have made parks in China a haven for relationship hunters and their parents" .[14] Zhongshan Park has been the location for six years where parents go to seek partners for their children. This process begins by the parents sitting on a bench with their child’s credentials, such as photos and academic or career information. After information has been exchanged and the parents like what they see, questions are asked about anything ranging from their child’s zodiac sign to their place of residence. If everything runs smoothly during the second step, contact information is exchanged. This process altogether can be very stressful for the parents and the child because they are not always in agreement. This makes it even more difficult for a partner to be found. Li, a middle-aged man who has experienced blind dating says he has met women "who have no intention of finding a boyfriend. Meeting me is merely to indulge their parents".[14] South Korea{{See also|Marriage in South Korea}}South Korean blind dating customs are preferred rather than other dating techniques. There are two kinds of blind dates in South Korea: "mee-ting" and "sogeting".[15] Mee-ting blind dates are group dates with no prior expectations of commitment, and are often used by university students. A sogeting date usually includes less alcohol than a mee-ting date. It is also engaged in by people who are "single and looking".[15] See also
References1. ^{{cite web|url=http://www.thefreedictionary.com/blind+date|title=blind date|publisher=}} 2. ^{{cite web|title=Light My Route of Blind Dating|url=http://ask.metafilter.com/210358/Light-My-Route-of-Blind-Dating|publisher=MetaFilter|accessdate=19 November 2012}} 3. ^{{cite web|last=Molloy|first=Angela|title=5 Rules for Great Blind Dates|url=http://www.mainstreet.com/article/lifestyle/5-rules-great-blind-dates|publisher=TheStreet|accessdate=19 November 2012}} 4. ^1 {{cite journal|last=Rosenfeld|first=Michael J.|author2=Reuben J. Thomas|title=Searching for a Mate: The Rise of the Internet as a Social Intermediary|journal=American Sociological Review|year=2012|volume=77|issue=4|pages=523–547|doi=10.1177/0003122412448050 |url=http://www.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_How_Couples_Meet_Working_Paper.pdf|accessdate=6 December 2013}} 5. ^{{cite web |url=http://pewinternet.org/Reports/2013/Online-Dating/Summary-of-Findings.aspx |title=Online Dating & Relationships |publisher=Pew Research Center |date=October 21, 2013}} 6. ^{{cite news|title=Gong Haiyan: China's number one matchmaker|url=https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-24017027|publisher=BBC News|accessdate=6 December 2013|date=10 September 2013}} 7. ^{{cite web|last=Discovery Channel|title=How do online dating sites match people up?|url=http://curiosity.discovery.com/question/how-online-dating-match-people|publisher=Discovery Communications|accessdate=19 November 2012}} 8. ^(2010). Match.com and Chadwick Martin Bailey 2009 - 2010 Studies:Recent Trends: Online Dating Retrieved from http://cp.match.com/cppp/media/CMB_Study.pdf 9. ^{{cite web|first=|title=Online Dating Statistics: How Many People Date Online?|url=http://www.onlinedatingdvd.com/blog/2011/08/online-dating-statistics/|publisher=OnlineDatingdvd|accessdate=19 November 2012}} 10. ^{{cite web|url=http://www.mtv.com/shows/parental_control/series.jhtml|title=Parental Control - Season 7 Episodes (TV Series) - MTV|website=MTV}} 11. ^{{cite news|last=Levin|first=Gary|title=Fox's celeb 'blind'-date spin on 'The Voice': 'The Choice'|url=http://content.usatoday.com/communities/entertainment/post/2012/05/foxs-celeb-blind-date-spin-on-the-voice-the-choice/1#.UKrgCPV5i|publisher=USA Today|accessdate=19 November 2012|date=2 May 2012}} 12. ^{{cite web|url=http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelor/about-the-show|title=About The Bachelor TV Show Series|website=ABC}} 13. ^{{cite web|url=https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0092666/|title=Blind Date|publisher=|via=www.imdb.com}} 14. ^1 LI, L. (2010). "Truly Blind Dating".. Beijing Review, 53(26), 24. Retrieved from http://ehis.ebscohost.com/eds/detail?sid=d1c944ff-46ac-41a3-b74f-7879dbe4ec49%40sessionmgr113&vid=1&hid=103&bdata=JnNpdGU9ZWRzLWxpdmU%3d#db=a9h&AN=51907167{{dead link|date=September 2018}} 15. ^1 {{cite news|last=Kim|first=Violet|title=Korea: The land of freaky, funny love|url=http://travel.cnn.com/explorations/life/Korea-freaky-funny-love-923390|publisher=CNN|accessdate=19 November 2012}} 1 : Intimate relationships |
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