| 词条 | Covert incest |
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ConceptCovert incest was defined in the 1980s[4] as an emotionally abusive[5] relationship between a parental figure and child that does not involve incest or sexual intercourse, though it involves similar interpersonal dynamics as a relationship between sexual partners.[4][6][7] Defining such relationships as "incest" has led to criticism of the concept for dramatically loosening the definition of incest, making child abuse seem more prevalent than it actually is.[8][9][10]Covert incest is described as occurring when a parent is unable or unwilling to maintain a relationship with another adult and forces the emotional role of a spouse onto their child instead.[5] The child's needs are ignored and instead the relationship exists solely to meet the needs of the parent[1][8] and the adult may not be aware of the issues created by their actions.[11] The effects of covert incest are thought to mimic actual incest though to a lesser degree,[2] and Kenneth Adams, who originated the concept, describes the victims as having anger or guilt towards parents and issues with self-esteem, addiction and sexual and emotional intimacy.[12] Psychotherapist Roni Weisberg-Ross has noted that the term may not be particularly useful, since it can lead to attributing nearly any possible dysfunctional relationship or problem, becoming "a catchall, watered down diagnosis". Ross also criticizes the term for its emphasis on children meeting parents' "unmet needs", noting that children often meet the emotional or other needs of parents, with relationship boundaries frequently blurring and no definition of when this leads to permanent damage or harm.[3] Jungian analyst and author Marion Woodman describes covert incest as "unboundaried bonding" in which the parent or parents use the child as a mirror to support their needs, rather than mirroring the child in support of the child's emotional development.[13]Alcoholism and other substance addictions are also associated with the occurrence of covert incest.[14][15]See also
References1. ^1 2 {{cite web|last1=Johnson|first1=R. Skip|title= Was Part of Your Childhood Deprived by Emotional Incest? |publisher=BPDFamily.com|url=http://bpdfamily.com/content/was-part-your-childhood-deprived-emotional-incest|access-date=June 10, 2014}} {{Incest}}{{DEFAULTSORT:Covert Incest}}2. ^1 {{cite book|title=Father-daughter incest |last= Herman |first= JL |author2=Hirschman L |year=2000 |publisher=Harvard University Press | url = |isbn= 0-674-00270-9 |quote=|page=125}} 3. ^1 {{cite web | last = Weisberg-Ross | first = Roni | title = Covert/Emotional Incest - How Real Is It? | url = http://ezinearticles.com/?Covert/Emotional-Incest---How-Real-Is-It?&id=6789184 | access-date = June 5, 2017 | date = January 1, 2012 | publisher = Ezine }} 4. ^1 {{cite journal | author = Jacobson M | year = 2001 | title = Child sexual abuse and the multidisciplinary team approach: contradictions in practice | journal = Childhood | volume = 8 | issue = 2 | pages = 231 | doi = 10.1177/0907568201008002006 }} 5. ^1 {{cite book |author=Friel DL & Friel JC |title=Adult children: the secrets of dysfunctional families |publisher=Health Communications |location=Deerfield Beach, Fla |year=1988 |pages= |isbn=0-932194-53-2}} 6. ^{{cite book |author=Love PG |title=The Emotional Incest Syndrome : What to do When a Parent's Love Rules Your Life |publisher=Bantam |location=London |year= 1991|pages= |isbn=0-553-35275-X }} 7. ^{{cite book|title=The Intimacy Struggle |first=JG |last=Woititz |year=1993 |pages=61| publisher=HCI |isbn=1-55874-277-8}} 8. ^1 2 {{cite book |author=Pendergrast, Mark |title=Victims of memory: sex abuse accusations and shattered lives |publisher=Upper Access |location=Hinesburg, Vt |year=1996 |pages= |isbn=0-942679-18-0 |oclc= |doi= | access-date = April 17, 2008 | url = https://books.google.com/books?id=zZgSSh6L4HIC&pg=PA11&dq=+%22covert+incest%22 }} 9. ^1 {{cite book |author=Bjorklund, David F. |title=False-memory creation in children and adults: theory, research, and implications |publisher=L. Erlbaum |location=Hillsdale, N.J |year=2000 |pages= |isbn=0-8058-3169-X |oclc= |doi= |access-date=}} 10. ^1 {{cite book |authorlink = Wendy Kaminer | author=Kaminer, Wendy |title=I'm dysfunctional, you're dysfunctional: the recovery movement and other self-help fashions |publisher=Vintage Books |location=New York |year=1993 |isbn=0-679-74585-8 |oclc= |doi= |access-date=|quote= |page= 27}} 11. ^{{cite book |author=Gartner RB |title=Betrayed as boys: psychodynamic treatment of sexually abused men |publisher=Guilford Press |location=New York |year=1999 |pages= |isbn=1-57230-644-0 |oclc= |doi= | access-date = April 17, 2008 | url = https://books.google.com/books?id=qzGfz6fyOAAC&pg=PA26}} 12. ^{{cite book |author=Adams K |title=Silently Seduced : When Parents Make their Children Partners - Understanding Covert Incest |publisher=HCI |location= |year=1991 |pages= |isbn=1-55874-131-3 |oclc= |doi=| url = https://books.google.com/books?id=ntvDUz8U3EYC&printsec=frontcover | access-date = April 14, 2008}} 13. ^{{cite book |title=Conscious Femininity: Interviews with Marion Woodman |first=Marion |last=Woodman |publisher=Inner City Books |year=1993|page=139|isbn=0-919123-59-7}} 14. ^{{cite book |title=Aggression, Family Violence, and Chemical Dependency |first=RT|last=Potter-Efron|author2=Potter-Efron PS |year=1990 |publisher=Haworth Press |pages=133–135| url =https://books.google.com/books?id=Dfndy3FRligC&pg=PA133 |isbn=0-86656-964-2}} 15. ^{{cite book |title=Families With an Alcoholic Member: The Invisible Patient |first=CP |last=Barnard |year=1990 |publisher=Human Sciences Press |pages=139 |isbn=0-89885-479-2}} 3 : Incest|Child abuse|Psychological abuse |
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