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{{Love sidebar|types}}Obsessive love is a condition in which one person feels an overwhelming obsessive desire to possess and protect another person toward whom one feels a strong attraction, with an inability to accept failure or rejection. Symptoms, if such a term is applicable, include an inability to tolerate any time spent without that person, obsessive fantasies surrounding the person, and spending inordinate amounts of time seeking out, making, or looking at images of that person.[1] Although it is not categorized specifically under any specific mental diagnosis by the DSM-5, some people{{who|date=January 2018}} argue that obsessive love is considered to be a mental illness similar to attachment disorder, borderline personality disorder, and erotomania. Depending on the intensity of their attraction, obsessive lovers may feel entirely unable to restrain themselves from extreme behaviors such as acts of violence toward themselves or others. Obsessive love can have its roots in childhood trauma and may begin at first sight; it may persist indefinitely, sometimes requiring psychotherapy.[2] [3]See also- Unrequited love
- Love addiction
- Love at first sight
- Stalking
References 1. ^{{cite book|author1=Susan Forward|author2=Craig Buck|title=Obsessive Love: When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=ET7gwrrxjz4C|date=1 January 2002|publisher=Bantam Books|isbn=978-0-553-38142-9}}
2. ^{{cite book |first=Liz |last=Hodgkinson |authorlink=Liz Hodgkinson |title=Obsessive Love: How to Free Your Emotions & Live Again|publisher=Endeavour Press Ltd |year=2013|quote=I believe that with obsessive love, time is no healer at all. The experience of obsessive love can be likened to dropping a stitch in knitting, and never picking it up. The knitting never quite looks right from then on, unless we unpick it and start again from the mistake.}}
3. ^{{Cite web| title = When normal love turns obsessive| last = Derrow| first = Paula.| work = Cosmopolitan| date = 2014-01-14| accessdate = 2017-03-18| url = http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/news/a5382/when-normal-love-turns-obsessive/}}
Further reading- {{cite book|last=Peabody |first=Susan |date=1995|orig-year=1989| title=Addiction to Love: Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships|edition=illustrated, reprint, revised | publisher=Ten Speed Press|isbn =9780890877159}}
- {{cite book|last=Moore |first=John |date=2006|orig-year=2010| title=Confusing Love with Obsession: When Being in Love Means Being in Control|edition=illustrated, reprint, revised | publisher=Hazelden Books|isbn =978-1592853564}}
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