| 词条 | Love & Respect | ||||||||||||||||||||
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| name = Love & Respect | image = File-Love & Respect Coverart.jpg | caption = | author = Dr. Emerson Eggerichs | illustrator = | cover_artist = | country = United States | language = English | series = | subject = Self-help, marriage, love, respect | genre = | publisher = Integrity Publishers | release_date = 2004 | english_release_date = | media_type = | pages = | isbn = 978-1-59145-187-7 | dewey= | congress= | oclc= | preceded_by = | followed_by = }}Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs was written in 2004 by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. The book suggests a direct connection between the emotional needs of men and women and a verse of scripture found in the Bible, that when adhered to, can strengthen and transform relationships.[1] Ephesians 5:33 "Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Dr. Eggerichs founded the nonprofit organization Love and Respect Ministries [2][3] in 1999 and held Love and Respect Marriage Conferences throughout the U.S. along with his wife Sarah.[4] By 2003 Dr. Eggerichs had become a requested speaker on the Christian radio broadcast Focus on the Family that at that time was hosted by psychologist James Dobson.[5] The book was then produced with the assistance of Focus on the Family and went on to make several top 10 book lists and won several book awards including the 2007 Book of the Year for the Family Christian Stores.[6][7][8] Other awards include the Gold Medallion Award in 2005 and the Retailers Choice Awards.[9][10][11] Dr. Eggerichs wrote a second follow-up to Love & Respect in 2009 titled The Language of Love & Respect: Cracking the Communication Code with Your Mate [12] In 2010, Love and Respect for a Lifetime, a gift book for husbands and wives, was released. SummaryThe book is built upon the theory that the "primary emotional needs" for men and women, respectively are that men need respect and women need love, like they need air to breathe. Dr. Eggerichs uses simple examples to illustrate real life situations in relationships and then often connects those situations to the verse in Ephesians and other passages in the Bible. The book is organized into three main sections.[1][13] The Crazy Cycle first illustrates that "Without love, she reacts without respect and without respect, he reacts without love". Misunderstandings in communication is expressed using simple metaphors to illustrate that men often use blue sunglasses and women often use pink sunglasses during communication.[14][15] Practical strategies are then discussed to stop the Crazy Cycle from spinning, including the use of scientific findings by John Gottman.[1]The Energizing Cycle next outlines strategies for improving a relationship by showing that "his love motivates her respect and her respect motivates his love", using two acronyms C-O-U-P-L-E (Closeness, Openness, Understanding, Peacemaking, Loyalty, and Esteem) and C-H-A-I-R-S (Conquest, Hierarchy, Authority, Insight, Relationship, and Sexuality).[1][16]The Rewarded Cycle lastly is demonstrated by example using Scripture that "His love blesses regardless of her respect and her respect blesses regardless of his love". Connecting obedience to Christ in the correlation to a greater outcome in the relationship is suggested.[1][13][16][17]Translations(This list is most probably incomplete.)
References1. ^1 2 3 4 {{Cite web | last = Conner | first = Jonathan | authorlink = | title = The Love a Wife Desires, the Respect a Husband Needs | work = | publisher = | date = September 2008 | url = http://www.hausvater.org/book-reviews/48-the-love-a-wife-desires-the-respect-a-husband-needs.html | doi = | accessdate = June 22, 2010}} 2. ^{{Cite web | last = Greulich | first = Megan | authorlink = | title = Guy "Secrets" Revealed? | work = | publisher = Christians for Biblical Equality | date = Autumn 2007 | url = http://www.cbeinternational.org/?q=content/guy-secrets-revealed-mixed-messages-teenagers-young-women-only | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 3. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = Love and Respect in the Homeschool Marriage | work = | publisher = Home School Legal Defense Association | volume = Vol. 78, Prg. 31–35 | date = November 26–30, 2007 | url = http://cache.zoominfo.com/CachedPage/?archive_id=0&page_id=-2101000010&page_url=%2f%2fwww.hslda.org%2fdocs%2fhshb%2f78%2fhshbwk7.asp&page_last_updated=11%2f27%2f2007+1%3a39%3a34+PM&firstName=Emerson&lastName=Eggerichs | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 4. ^{{Cite web | last = Heffernan | first = Carol | authorlink = | title = Your spouse's greatest need | work = | publisher = Focus on the Family (Canada) Association | date = 202 | url = http://www.focusonthefamily.ca/marriage/conflict/your-spouses-greatest-need | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 5. ^{{Cite web | last = Palmer | first = Adam | authorlink = | title = Love + Respect=Marital Bliss | work = | publisher = New Man Magazine | date = Jan–Feb 2006 | url = http://newmanmag.com/display_cms.php?id=12306 | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 6. ^{{Cite web | last = Fairchild | first = Mary | authorlink = | title = Top 10 Most Popular Christian Books | work = | publisher = About.com | url = http://christianity.about.com/od/christianbooks/tp/christianbooks.htm | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 7. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = CBA Best-Seller Lists | work = | publisher = Christian Booksellers Association | url = http://christianity.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ&zTi=1&sdn=christianity&cdn=religion&tm=621&gps=292_137_796_481&f=00&tt=3&bt=1&bts=0&zu=http%3A//www.cbaonline.org/nm/BSLs.htm | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 8. ^{{Cite web | last = Griffin | first = Pam | authorlink = | title = Love and Respect Conference comes to Emerald Coast | work = | publisher = The Destin Log | date = September 4, 2008 | url = http://www.thedestinlog.com/articles/conference-6217-emerald-coast.html | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 9. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = 2005 Christian Book Awards Winners | work = | publisher = Evangelical Christian Publishers Association | year = 2005 | url =http://www.ecpa.org/christianbookawards/cba2005.php | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 10. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = Christian Retailing Retailers Choice Awards | work = | publisher = Retailers Choice Awards | year = 2005 | url =http://www.retailerschoiceawards.com/2005winners.html | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 11. ^{{Cite web | last = Hyatt | first = Michael | authorlink = | title = Book Notes: Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs | work = | publisher = Michael Hyatt | date = July 27, 2009 | url = http://michaelhyatt.com/2009/07/book-notes-love-and-respect.html | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 12. ^{{Cite web | last = Howe | first = Michele | authorlink = | title = Review | work = | publisher = FaithfulReader.com | url = http://www.faithfulreader.com/reviews/9780849948077.asp | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 28, 2010}} 13. ^1 {{Cite web | last = | first = Gretchen | authorlink = | title = The respect he desperately needs | work = | publisher = Young Ladies Christian Fellowship | date = May 6, 2006 | url = http://ylcf.org/2006/05/respect-he-desperately-needs/ | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 14. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = Love & Respect - Pink And Blue | work = | publisher = YouTube | date = February 3, 2010 | url = https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ryj7nhzvqbc | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 15. ^{{Cite web | last = Mueller | first = Jim | authorlink = | title = A Conversation with Emerson Eggerichs | work = | publisher = Growthtrac Ministries | year = 2007 | url = http://www.growthtrac.com/artman/publish/a-conversation-with-emerson-eggerichs-3-1075.php | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 16. ^1 {{Cite web | last = Basham | first = Leslie | authorlink = |author2=Nancy Leigh DeMoss | title = The Energizing Cycle | work = | publisher = Revive Our Hearts | url = http://www.reviveourhearts.com/radio/roh/today.php?pid=10257 | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} 17. ^{{Cite web | last = | first = | authorlink = | title = Love & Respect—The Glue That Holds Relationships Together | work = | publisher = | date = November 4, 2007 | url = http://www.gracecommunityonline.org/dev/uploadedFiles/In_Crisis/Marriage_Resources/Love%2520%2520Respect%20The%20Glue%20That%20Holds%20Relationships%20Together-11-4-07.pdf | format = | doi = | accessdate = June 25, 2010}} External links
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