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{{No footnotes|date=January 2011}}"Playing the pronoun game" is the act of concealing sexual orientation in conversation by not using a gender-specific pronoun for a partner or a lover, which would reveal the sexual orientation of the person speaking. Someone may employ the pronoun game when conversing with people to whom they have not "come out". In a situation in which revealing one's sexual orientation would have adverse consequences (such as the loss of a job), playing the pronoun game is seen to be a necessary act of concealment. The pronoun game involves avoiding reference to one's sexual orientation and allowing the listener's assumptions on the matter to prevail. It also involves not drawing the listener's attention to the fact that the sex of a pronoun's antecedent is not being specified. As such, playing the pronoun game involves - re-phrasing sentences such that they avoid the need for third-person singular sex-specific pronouns (e.g. "We decided to eat out," rather than "She and I decided to eat out."), often using amphilogism, a form of circumlocution (e.g. "The person I was with and I decided to go to the play");
- using gender-neutral language such as "firefighter" rather than "fireman", phrases such as "my partner", "the better half" or "my significant other", or the person's name where it isn't sex- or gender-specific; and
- using gender-neutral pronouns that have long-since entered common usage, such as singular they, without employing uncommonly used (and thus attention-calling) neologistic gender-neutral pronouns such as "thon", "hu", "xe", "sie" and "hir" or the spivak pronoun construction (see gender-neutral pronoun, 'spivak pronoun').
See also- Circumlocution
- Closeted
- Feminist language reform (also known as Feminist Language Planning)
- Gender essentialism
- Gender neutrality in languages with grammatical gender
- Gender-neutral language
- Gender-neutral pronoun
- Homophobia
- Lavender linguistics
- Sexual equality (also known as Gender equality)
- LGBT community
- Pat (Saturday Night Live)
- Situational sexual behavior
- Social Norm
- Transphobia
References- {{cite news|last=Wofford|first=Brittany|url=http://www.indyweek.com/gyrobase/Content?oid=oid%3A17816|title=Fun with pronouns |publisher=Independent Weekly|date=2002-06-19}}
- {{cite web|accessdate=June 12, 2005|url=http://www.livejournal.com/users/maeveenroute/27239.html|title=The pronoun game (and other related phenomena)|work=}}
- {{cite web|accessdate=June 12, 2005 |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20040818062616/http://www.softassteel.com/files/bio/work/ling.html|archivedate=2004-08-18|url=http://www.softassteel.com/files/bio/work/ling.html|title=A look at language and gender in Latin and English|work=Language and Culture, ANTH 3063}}
- {{cite web|accessdate=June 12, 2005|url=http://www.countplusplus.ca/archive/blog/200502/#Thepronoungame|title=The pronoun game|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20060721060745/http://www.countplusplus.ca/archive/blog/200502/#Thepronoungame|archivedate=2006-07-21|work=}} Gives an example of how people often don't notice someone is playing the pronoun game.
- {{cite news|url=http://www.citybeat.com/2001-05-10/cover4.shtml|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20010624162130/http://www.citybeat.com/2001-05-10/cover4.shtml|archivedate=2001-06-24|title=Who's That Lady?|publisher=CityBeat|date=2001-05-16}}
- {{cite web|accessdate=June 14, 2005|url=http://people.csail.mit.edu/kathleen/tuesday4may.html|title=Anthropological diary|work=}} which discusses the avoidance of lying
External links - "The pronoun game" at Everything2
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