1. Cowgirl position

2. Reverse missionary position

3. Reverse cowgirl position

4. Advantage

5. Comparison to the cowboy position

6. Gallery

7. See also

8. References

Woman on top, also called the cowgirl or riding position, is a group of sex positions in which a man sits or lies on his back with his legs closed, while the female partner straddles him usually in a kneeling position facing either forward or back, and either the man or woman inserts the man's erect penis into the woman's vagina or anus.^[1] The cowgirl name derives from the image of the receiving partner "riding" the partner as a cowgirl rides a bucking horse.

There are a number of variations of the woman on top position, most notably being the reverse cowgirl position. Variations include the man's legs being closed and the woman straddling them, or the legs being spread and the woman's between them. In the latter position the woman can tighten her legs at will, to increase the pressure on the man's penis. Other variations include the ability of the woman to tilt her body forward towards a full lying position or backwards, for variety or to change the angle of penetration. Pompoir sex is usually performed with the woman on top. This position is also used as a precursor to the lateral coital position.^[2]

This position is commonly cited as one of the more popular sex positions, especially by women, because of its ability to adequately stimulate the clitoris and because it gives them control over the rhythm and pace of vaginal stimulation and the extent and duration of penetration.^[1] In any of these positions, the woman is usually the active partner during the sexual activity, and in addition to satisfying herself can stimulate or massage the man's testicles, especially if his legs are spread.

Cowgirl position

In the cowgirl position, the man lies on his back or sits, with the woman straddling him across his pelvis facing forward, either in a kneeling or squatting position. The woman will align her vagina with the man's erect penis, and lower herself onto the penis with either the man or the woman guiding the penis into the woman's vagina for penetration.^[1] With the erect penis inside the woman, the woman can glide up and down the man's penis,^[3][4] controlling the rhythm and pace of vaginal stimulation and the extent and duration of penetration.^[1] The woman is free to change her position ranging from leaning back to stretching out on her partner's chest to rocking from side to side or in a circular motion. Each of those changes would alter the angle and depth of penetration and which part of the vaginal area and sex organs are stimulated. The man's hands are free to reach and touch the woman's breasts, clitoris, buttocks, face etc.,^[3][4] and the partners can maintain eye contact. With the woman in the sitting or leaning back positions, the man may also stimulate her nipples and clitoris with his fingers, or suck on her nipples if she inclines towards him or he raises his torso towards her.

In this position a woman can continue with the up and down motion after the man has achieved orgasm until she reaches orgasm. Afterwards, she may collapse onto the man's chest, with her vagina being very sensitive to further stimulation. On the other hand, if the woman reaches orgasm before the man, the woman may raise her pelvis to enable the man to actively thrust upwards^[3] or the couple may change to a position which enables the man to continue thrusting, such as the missionary position.

A woman may also engage in pegging (penetrating a man with a strap-on dildo) while being on top.^[5]

Reverse missionary position

When the woman lies on her partner's chest, a better description is the reverse missionary position. Stretching out with her legs on the man^[3] puts more pressure on the woman's mons pubis and clitoris. If the man separates his legs, the woman can put her legs between his.^[3] In this position she can increase the tightness on the man's penis by pressing her thighs together, or the man may press the woman's thighs together. This increases vaginal friction but she can still control the pace and rhythm of her thrusts. As most women approach orgasm, they experience acute vaginal contractions,^[6] which also increases the man's sexual stimulation by increasing tightness on his penis.

Reverse cowgirl position

In the reverse cowgirl position, the woman straddles the man facing the man's feet in a kneeling or squatting position. After either she or the man has guided the penis into the woman's vagina, the woman can keep her torso upright, or she can lean forward or back to lie on the man's chest or move sideways at will. The man's legs can be flat on the bed or arched. The woman also has control over the pace, rhythm, depth, and duration of penetration. By changing her position and thrusts, the woman can change the level of stimulation for the man, while simultaneously stimulating her clitoris or an area termed "the G-spot." When planting her feet instead of kneeling, still facing away from her partner, the position is known as reverse Asian cowgirl.^[7]

The reverse cowgirl has some risks to it though, such as breaking or bruising to the penis; half of reported penile fractures occur due to this position.^[8]

Advantage

An advantage of the woman on top positions is that the man's weight is not on the woman. The woman on top positions are ideal during pregnancy as there is no pressure on the woman's abdomen, and it is easy for her to control the depth and speed of penetration. It is also useful if the man is recovering from a serious illness or surgery or if the woman has recently given birth.^[3]

Comparison to the cowboy position

The cowboy position is the equivalent for sex wherein the man is being penetrated; in the LGBT community, the major difference is that it is usually anal sex in which the bottom straddles the top, who otherwise assumes the same role as the male does in the cowgirl position.^[9] In addition to sharing many of the same advantages as the cowgirl variant, the position is often cited as being advantageous for bottoms who are new to anal sex, as it allows the receiving partner to lower himself on to the other's penis at his own pace.^[10]

Gallery

See also

• Pompoir
• Doggy style

References

• Pedrabissi, Thomas
• Pedra Branca State Park
• Pedrad
• Pedra da Boca State Park
• Pedra da Gale
• Pedra da Galei
• Pedra da Galé
• Pedra da Risca do Meio Marine State Park
• Pedra das Flores Natural Monument
• Pedra de Feitiço
• Pedra do Baú Natural Monument
• Pedra do Elefante Natural Monument
• Pedra do Sino
• Pedra Furada sites
• Pedraja de San Esteban
• Pedram Sadeghian
• Pedras
• Pedras de Mora
• Pedras (disambiguation)
• Pedra Selada State Park
• Pedra-ume-caá
• Pedrazzini
• Pedregal, Boqueron
• Pedregal de San Ángel
• Pedregal, Panama District